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Communicating for Success: How Clarity, Authenticity, & Adaptability Shape Effective Leadership

In the evolving landscape of leadership, the power of effective communication is one thing that remains unchanged. As technology advances and workplace dynamics shift, leaders are left to navigate a complex web of interactions while mastering the foundational elements of leadership communication that stand the test of time. These foundational elements include clarity, authenticity, and adaptability – each playing a critical role in a leader's ability to inspire, motivate, and drive success.

Clarity: The Key to Alignment and Productivity

Clarity is the cornerstone of effective leadership communication. It is the ability to convey ideas, expectations, and feedback in a way that is easily understood and actionable. The importance of clarity in leadership communication cannot be overstated, as it directly impacts the alignment, trust, and productivity of teams.

At its core, clarity in leadership communication means expressing oneself in a manner that is concise, direct, and simple to comprehend. Leaders who recognize the importance of clarity in leadership communication are able to articulate their vision, goals, and expectations in a way that leaves no room for misinterpretation.

While there are many benefits of mastering clear communication, a few stand out for leaders: 

  1. Improved understanding and alignment among team members

  2. Enhanced trust and credibility through transparency

  3. Increased efficiency and productivity by reducing misunderstandings

Embracing clarity in leadership communication is not just a nice-to-have skill; it is a critical competency that can make or break a leader's ability to inspire, motivate, and guide their team.

How are you adding clarity to your communication with your team?

Authenticity: Building Trust and Genuine Connections

In an age of curated social media personas and polished corporate messaging, authenticity has become a rare and valuable commodity in leadership communication. Leaders who have learned to embrace authenticity create genuine connections with their teams and stakeholders, fostering trust, loyalty, and meaningful engagement.

Authenticity in leadership communication is the practice of being genuine, sincere, and true to oneself. Authentic leaders communicate with honesty, vulnerability, and transparency, even when (especially when) faced with challenges or criticism. They are self-aware, acknowledging their strengths and weaknesses, and are committed to continuous growth and improvement. They also never lose sight of the idea that communication is a two way process and that empathy is vital to good authenticity. As a leader, ensure you are being authentic without being mean, nasty, or off-putting.

Authentic leadership communication strategies include:

  1. Demonstrating vulnerability to create a safe space for others to do the same

  2. Aligning words with actions to earn respect and trust

  3. Prioritizing active listening, empathy, and understanding

In a world where trust is often in short supply, authentic leadership communication is a vital tool for building lasting, productive relationships with team members, stakeholders, and customers alike.

How are you showing authenticity in an empathetic way with those you lead?

Adaptability: The Mark of a High-Performing Leader

In an era marked by disruption and uncertainty, adaptability has become a defining characteristic of effective leadership. The ability to adjust one's communication style, approach, and strategies in response to new challenges and opportunities is what sets high performing leaders apart.

Adaptable leaders recognize that one-size-fits-all communication rarely works in diverse, dynamic environments. They understand that different individuals, teams, and situations require tailored approaches to communication. By being flexible and responsive, adaptable leaders can effectively engage and motivate their teams, even in the face of uncertainty or adversity.

To cultivate adaptability, leaders must:

  1. Understand and embrace diverse communication styles and preferences

  2. Develop proficiency in communicating across both in personal and virtual channels

  3. Prioritize human connection as you think about digital communication.

  4. Commit to continuous learning and improvement, seeking feedback and staying informed about the latest communication trends and best practices.

What one small thing would you commit to doing that could have a huge impact on your team?

The Ripple Effect of Effective Leadership Communication

In a world where change is constant and challenges are inevitable, the ability to communicate effectively is a leadership superpower. By mastering and consistently applying the foundational elements of leadership communication – clarity, authenticity, and adaptability – leaders can empower their teams to innovate, collaborate, and deliver exceptional results, even in the face of adversity.

Over time, the consistent application of these principles creates a ripple effect that shapes the culture and character of an organization, setting the tone for open communication, trust, and resilience, creating a foundation for sustained growth, innovation, and success. 

Valentine’s Day Is Around the Corner!

I truly understand that we are all juggling so many things, but amidst our busy schedules, it is crucial not to overlook the most significant relationships in our lives. What I truly appreciate about this coming Valentine's Day is the intentionality it encourages.

Valentine's Day is not just about romance; in my life, it is a chance for me to honor the women who hold special places in my life. Each relationship is unique and precious, and on this day, I make it a point to show them how much they mean to me. Whether it's a small gesture or a heartfelt expression, I ensure they feel cherished and valued.

Being Intentional

Reflecting on recent years, I have come to appreciate the true value of all of my relationships. I'll admit, there were times when I prioritized money or business over connections, but I've since realized the importance of being intentional. While work is essential to me, it's not my sole focus anymore. Now, my priority lies in nurturing meaningful relationships.

This Valentine's Day, I'm committed to fostering strong emotional connections. Being intentional means aligning my actions with what truly matters to me and ensuring my relationships thrive.

Emotional Communication

While gifts like flowers or chocolates are thoughtful, they sometimes fall short of expressing our genuine feelings. Instead of solely relying on material tokens, why not delve deeper into emotional connection?

Consider going the extra mile by creating something meaningful for those important to you in your life. Whether it's crafting a poem or taking on a task for them, your effort speaks volumes. Emotional connection thrives on thoughtfulness and attentiveness.

Creating shared experiences is key. From planning a Valentine's Day dinner together to setting the table and preparing the meal as a team, these moments can foster deep emotional connections. It's not always about serious conversations; sometimes, it's the mundane details that strengthen our bonds.

This Valentine's Day, let's prioritize meaningful connections over grand gestures to everyone important in our lives. Whether it's through small talk or shared experiences, the essence lies in being present and attentive. Happy Valentine's Day on Wednesday!

Having the Courage to Speak Truth to Power in Leadership

in the realm of leadership, a crucial yet daunting task is the ability to communicate truths that challenge the status quo. Henry Kissinger once remarked on the challenge young leaders face when delivering uncomfortable truths to those in positions of authority. This act of 'speaking truth to power' involves presenting contrary information up the hierarchical ladder, often met with potential repercussions that can range from rejection and dismissal to humiliation and isolation.

The weight of this challenge is considerable. Young leaders often find themselves at a crossroads, withholding essential information due to the fear of negative outcomes. However, there exists a significant upside to sharing concealed insights with a leader:

  • Recognition for valuable input

  • Inclusion in decision-making processes

  • Appreciation for displaying courage

  • Acknowledgment of one's contribution

Despite the inherent risk and tension in 'speaking truth to power,' it remains an essential responsibility, influenced by various factors:

  • Organizational culture and its tolerance for information sharing

  • Personal risk tolerance of young leaders

  • The leader's historical response to different opinions

Receptivity of the Leader

The burden of initiating these difficult conversations can be likened to wearing a shirt made of lead. However, the duty lies not solely on the deliverer but also on the receiver—particularly senior leaders—to create an environment conducive to open communication. The senior leadership's ability to foster an atmosphere where individuals feel empowered to share crucial information plays a pivotal role.

In a fast-paced organizational landscape driven by a 'get-it-done-now' culture, the pressure to survive often eclipses the necessity to foster an environment of open dialogue and shared truths. As leaders, it becomes imperative to cultivate a culture and persona that welcomes diverse voices and viewpoints.

5 Actionable steps

Here are five actionable steps for leaders seeking to gather comprehensive information crucial for making well-informed decisions:

  • Slow down your cadence: Rushing through decisions often leads to tunnel vision. Take deliberate pauses, allowing yourself to explore multiple possibilities.

  • Cultivate curiosity: Suspend the need to assert your perspective immediately. Instead, invest effort in understanding others' viewpoints before forming conclusions.

  • Express gratitude: Acknowledge and appreciate inputs, even if they challenge your assumptions. Simple acts of gratitude foster a more inclusive and respectful environment.

  • Reflect: Engage in introspection at the end of each day. Analyze interactions objectively, focusing on understanding motives and responses without defensiveness.

  • Develop your leadership soul: While intelligence and skills are crucial, investing in the inner growth of your leadership persona is equally vital. Explore avenues to nurture and develop your leadership essence.

In navigating the complexities of leadership, embracing the courage to voice uncomfortable truths while fostering an environment that is valuable to such conversations is pivotal. It's in this synergy of openness, reflection, and proactive development that leaders can truly cultivate an atmosphere where every voice is valued and heard.

Homework:

Select one action from the previously mentioned list and practice it consistently for a week. For instance, consciously express gratitude in every interaction or communication you have. Reflect on how this practice impacts your leadership approach, and share your experiences here.

Valentine’s Day Is Around the Corner!

Hey, I know you are busy! We all are busy. But being busy is no excuse for not letting the most important relationships in your life know how important they are to you. The thing I love about this day set aside to celebrate love is the intentionality of it all. 

Valentine’s Day is a day when I can celebrate the women who are important to me. They are all very special relationships and I want them to know how much I cherish the relationship I have with each one of them. I guarantee that there will be something I will do for each of them that lets them know on this special day of celebration that they are on my mind and in my heart.

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Being Intentional

One thing I have noticed over the last few years is the value of my relationships. I am a bit ashamed to admit that in the past I have sometimes put the idea of money or commerce above relationships. Thankfully, I can honestly say that I no longer do this. Not that making a living in my work is not important, because it is. However, money is simply no longer the thing I want to be very intentional about.  

For me, beyond the giving of a gift like flowers or chocolate, on Valentine’s Day, I will intentionally focus on ensuring my relationships are well-formed and intact. Being intentional requires being meaningful and purposeful. It requires aligning my goals and my choices so that what am I doing reflects what is important to me.

I think Valentine’s Day is a great way that I can bring meaning and purpose into both my life and the lives of the relationships that are most important to me. And I can do this by being intentional with my emotional connections.

Emotional Communication

One way to show your loved one that you care for them is to purchase them something that is a token expression of your love. This is probably the easiest for most of us to do, but in the end, probably communicates the least how we really feel about the other person.

By no means am I saying that you should stiff your loved one on this day, but why not consider taking an additional step toward some deeper emotional connection with them?

A great way to show your significant other how much you care is to do something for them. In addition to or instead of buying something, why not actually create something? There are not many things that say “I love you” more than the other person knowing you spent time creating something, thinking of them the entire time you were doing it. Maybe you could sit for an hour and write them a poem? Or, if you are so inclined, maybe you could step in and take care of a task that they would normally do themselves.

The big idea around emotional connection is that you are noticing them and thinking about them. And If you can, perhaps the best way to connect with someone emotionally is to simply spend time with them.

Try engaging in some conversation about a subject they enjoy but that you might not know so much about. Maybe there is a TV show that your partner really enjoys or a sports team that they follow. The idea around small talk is that you become inquisitive about all aspects of their lives. Psychoanalyst Harry Stack Sullivan developed an approach that he called “detailed inquiry,” where you get curious talking to others about all aspects of their lives.

What research is showing is that these small insignificant conversations actually create more of an emotional connection than the deeper conversations about life's most significant issues. Even something as simple as making a grocery list together or going over in detail all the movies playing at the theater before deciding which one to see can draw you closer to another person.   Once you have talked about these small insignificant experiences, then go out and share them together!

Maybe you can sit with your significant other and create some small talk about what a great Valentine's Day dinner might look like for the two of you. What the meal will consist of, what kind of candles should there be, do you want a tablecloth or a runner, cloth or paper napkins? Just get curious together about the insignificant details. Then go to the store together and buy all the things you talked about. Get the napkins, the steaks, the candles, etc. Tomorrow, put the entire dinner on the table together. Fix the meal together. Pour each other a glass of wine. Just be together in the same moment. These are the things of deep emotional connections.

Too many times we think these types of connections require deep topics that are serious in nature, but if you want to connect with another person on an emotional level, try to spend some time just chatting about the small stuff and then create an experience around the small conversation.

You will be so glad that you did. Happy Valentine’s Day!

Three Ways to Improve Communication in a Hybrid Work World

Because of the pandemic over the last couple of years, our virtual work world seems to be here to stay. One thing the pandemic has caused organizations to rethink is how work is done. What people do has remained pretty consistent over these couple of years, but how they get it done has made some seismic shifts, causing in part what some are calling a “talent migration.” 

From my vantage point, an overwhelming part of the great talent migration has to do with workplace flexibility. I also think that this movement is away from what we all knew as a traditional flex model to hybrid work. In the traditional flex model, an employee could work (wink, wink) a day or so from home when needed. Some organizations even went as far as to declare a specified work-from-home day. The shift that employees started asking for, or perhaps even requiring through this crisis, is that they want to work from home indefinitely or want to only come into an office only when absolutely necessary.

This shift evolves as workers reprioritize what is important in their lives. Organizations need to brace themselves for new levels of competition and get used to not having as much talent around to compete with each other. At the end of the day, what wins this tug of war is the culture of the organization. Those organizations with great cultures will have much less migration than those that merely think they have a great culture. 

There will always be a story of a person who leaves and triples his/her salary. I think we all tip our hats to them and say “good for you.” However, as leaders, let's not be fooled into thinking that people always leave just for money. Employees want to be fairly compensated for what they do. The leadership and cultural battle is going to be waged not on what the associate is asked to do, but on how they can do it.

I think the call for us as leaders is to engage strategic thinking around flexible, hybrid work. In leadership, the future belongs to the curious and flexible. Those who can engage a growth mindset, be curious about what the talent is looking for, and be agile with the changing business landscape will evolve and win.  Those with a fixed mindset may get their way. The question is for how long.  Like it or not, hybrid work is here to stay, in some form or fashion. Even long after all the viruses have mutated away or herd immunity is achieved, some mix of working from home for knowledge workers is here to stay.

Like many of you, I also had to learn to adapt to this new business reality. Everything from virtual doctor appointments, to picking out tile for a remodeled bathroom, to individual and group coaching sessions have gone from face-to-face interactions to options for a virtual environment. I am realizing that no matter how much I want work to go back to the way it was before the pandemic, it will not.

Since I am imploring leaders to have a growth mindset around hybrid work, I have been challenging myself to see what encouragement I could offer to enhance the skills of leaders to retain talent. This has led me to observe how people are interacting virtually. 

Most of us have long gotten past some of the initial communication disruptions like dogs barking in the background, or cats climbing on keyboards, or people walking in the background of a video chat. The struggle became about being more effective with people when you are not in the same room.

Three Ways to Improve Communication in a Hybrid Work World

  1. Focus on Energy. Judith Glaser in her book "Conversational Intelligence" encourages leaders to make communication about the exchange of energy and not information. She calls this Transformational Communication and it is a Share-Discover model versus an Ask-Tell dynamic. When you focus on the energy in the conversation, you create space by exploring others' perspectives, innovating, and creating. As a leader, you move from listening to the other person to protect yourself and your idea to instead listening to ensure you connect with the other person and they feel heard. The skill to develop here as a leader is for you to ask questions you don’t have answers to and to help the other person feel heard.

  2. Principle of Physicality. This is a term I coined some years ago when working with sales professionals who had to be ready at a moment's notice to communicate with a customer. Pay attention to your physical environment. Get some good feedback from others on what your physical environment looks like on a video call.

    What is your background? It doesn’t have to be perfect, but it should be professional.

    1. How is your camera positioned? Are you looking at it or is it pointing down at the top of your head? 

    2. What kind of lighting do you have? If you are not well lit, people can't see you very well.

    3. How are you connecting with audio? Can you maintain a consistent audio connection for an entire call?

  3. Give Trust. Many of us, with this hybrid model, have to rethink what trust means to us. The employment agreement we have had with folks has always been built on trust. The difference is we thought as long as we were coming into an office and could see the employees was that they were working. With the knowledge workers of today, leaders need to learn to set clear expectations for what and how work is to be approached and then trust that people are doing it. If there is a problem or a gap, then create psychological safety to address the gap. Don’t fall into the trap that the performance gap is the hybrid work model. You don’t know if this gap would not have existed if the person was coming into an office every day. Remember, the employment agreement is still built on trust. As leaders, we may need to spend some time thinking about what this means for us. If assumptions in how people work have been changing, what do we need to change to accommodate?

Flexibility is a significant part of a leader's emotional intelligence. Understanding and being flexible with how you feel about things prevents you from developing a fixed mindset. Stay open. Stay curious. If people are migrating away from your organization, work hard to find the real reason why.

Three Ways to Improve Communication in a Hybrid Work World

Omicron.

Like it or not we are all either learning the Greek alphabet for the first time or being reminded of a time when we first tried to master the 24 letters.

Whether Omicron wreaks havoc on society or fizzles out as fast as it came, our virtual work world seems to be here to stay. One thing the Coronavirus pandemic has caused organizations to rethink is how work is done. What people do has remained pretty consistent, but how they get it done has made some seismic shifts, causing in part what some are calling a “talent migration.” 

From my vantage point, an overwhelming part of the great talent migration has to do with workplace flexibility. I also think that this movement is away from what we all knew as a traditional flex model to hybrid work. In the traditional flex model, an employee could work (wink, wink) a day or so from home when needed. Some organizations even went as far as to declare a specified ‘work from home’ day. The shift that employees are asking for, or perhaps even requiring, is that they want to work from home indefinitely, or want to only come into an office only when absolutely necessary.

This shift is only in its infancy as workers reprioritize what is important in their lives. Organizations need to brace themselves for new levels of competition and not having as much talent around to compete. 

At the end of the day, what will win this tug of war is the culture of the organization. Those organizations with great cultures will have much less migration than those that merely think they have a great culture. 

There will always be a story of a person who leaves and triples his/her salary. I think we all tip our hat to them and say “good for you.” However, as leaders, let's not be fooled into thinking that people always leave for money. 

Employees want to be fairly compensated for what they do. The leadership and cultural battle is going to be waged not on what the associate is asked to do, but on how they can do it.

I think the call for us as leaders is to engage strategic thinking around flexible, hybrid work. In leadership, the future belongs to the curious and flexible. Those who can engage a growth mindset, be curious about what the talent is looking for, and be agile with the changing business landscape will evolve and win. 

Those with a fixed mindset may get their way. The question is for how long. 

Like it or not, hybrid work is here to stay, in some form or fashion. Even long after all the Greek SARs viruses have mutated away or herd immunity is achieved, some mix of working from home for knowledge workers is a new reality.

Like many of you, I have had to learn to adapt to this new business reality. Everything from virtual doctor appointments, to picking out tile for a remodeled bathroom, to individual and group coaching sessions have gone from face-to-face interactions to a virtual environment. I am realizing that no matter how much I want work to go back to the way it was before COVID, it will not.

Since I am imploring leaders to have a growth mindset around hybrid work, I have been challenging myself to see what encouragement I could offer to enhance the skills of leaders to retain talent. This has led me to observe how people are interacting virtually. 

Most of us have gotten past some of the initial communication disruptions like dogs barking in the background, or cats climbing on keyboards, or people walking in the background of a video chat. The struggle has become about being more effective with people when you are not in the same room.

Three Ways to Improve Communication in a Hybrid Work World

  1. Focus on Energy. Judith Glaser in her book "Conversational Intelligence" encourages leaders to make communication about the exchange of energy and not information. She calls this Transformational Communication and it is a Share-Discover model versus an Ask-Tell dynamic. When you focus on the energy in the conversation, you create space by exploring others' perspectives, innovating, and creating. As a leader, you move from listening to the other person to protect yourself and your idea to instead listening to ensure you connect with the other person and they feel heard. The skill to develop here as a leader is for you to ask questions you don’t have answers to and to help the other person feel heard.

  2. Principle of Physicality. This is a term I coined some years ago when working with sales professionals who had to be ready at a moment's notice to communicate with a customer. Pay attention to your physical environment. Get some good feedback from others on what your physical environment looks like on a video call.

    1. What is your background? It doesn’t have to be perfect; it should be professional.

    2. How is your camera positioned; are you looking at it or is it pointing down at the top of your head? 

    3. What kind of lighting do you have? If you are not well lit, people can't see you and it is hard to develop the energy needed.

    4. How are you connecting with audio? Can you maintain a consistent audio connection for an entire call?

  3. Give Trust. Many of us, with a new hybrid model, are going to have to rethink what trust means to us. The employment agreement we have had with folks has always been built on trust. The difference is we thought as long as we were coming into an office and could see them that they were working. With the knowledge workers of today, leaders need to learn to set clear expectations for what and how work is to be approached and then trust that people are doing it. If there is a problem or a gap, then create psychological safety to address the gap. Don’t fall into the trap that the performance gap is the hybrid work model. You don’t know this gap would not have existed if the person was coming into an office every day. Remember, the employment agreement is still built on trust. As leaders, we may need to spend some time thinking about what this means for us. If assumptions in how people work are changing, what do we need to change to accommodate?

Flexibility is a significant part of a leader's emotional intelligence. Understanding and being flexible with how you feel about things prevents you from developing a fixed mindset. Stay open. Stay curious. If people are migrating away from your organization, work hard to find the real reason why.

How to Predict Success in 2017

I hope you had a wonderful holiday season! I know I sure did.  My time was spent with family and catching up with some old friends I hadn’t seen in a while. One of the conversations I had over the holidays was with a friend from graduate school who is sensing some transition in his life. He asked a question during our coffee that I actually get asked by a lot by folks who are desiring a change in their life:

“Scott, when you first got started, what are 3 things you think allowed you to be successful?”

First, I want you to know that I am humbled to be put in a category where others see me as successful. It is truly an honor that the clients I work with (or have worked with in the past) would continue to hire me to develop the leadership in themselves or others within their organizations. I don’t take this responsibility lightly or for granted…ever!

Second, I think attempting to replicate another person's experience is dangerous. Models are built upon data and a number of assumptions. The assumptions I used and the situation I was in when I first started this business 15 years or so ago could not possibly be duplicated by others today. Although I can provide some information that is directionally helpful, trying to replicate my experience would be quite frustrating.

Clayton Christensen echo’s this point in his book Competing Against Luck. He tells the story of how Google attempted to use analytics to predict influenza outbreaks. By creating search engine algorithms, engineers tried to predict when people were searching for items related to influenza. It turns out that the link between specific search terms and the algorithm was too complex and the tool became unreliable as a predictive.

Reframe the Question

While it is always an honor and fun to share my story, I don’t think my story is really what people want to know! I get asked a lot about my experience, but what people are really asking has nothing to do with me!

So, what is the question the person is really asking?

Any “coach” (whether formal or informal, external or internal, paid or volunteer, executive or life or organizational) must have the skill of listening then reframing questions. Reframing a question provides a different perspective on the issue at hand.

Here is what I have come up with when I reframe the question my friend asked me initially:

Scott, based on your experience what are the 3 things I need to do to be successful?

Don’t you think this is what most people really want to know when they ask about translating your success into their story?

Examples

Consider these questions you might get asked within your role, and what is the question the people might really be asking:

Question: As an HR Vice President, what does leadership development look like? Real Question: What do I need to do to get promoted to my next role in the company?

Question: As a Sales Leader, how did you balance work and family? Real Question: If I sacrifice time with my family will it be worth it financially?

Question: As a Church Plant Pastor, what are you doing to grow your congregation? Real Question: What should I be doing to grow my church? I am doing everything the books say I should do, but it isn't working!

Please don’t misunderstand my point. I do think that people want to know how you approach things, how you set goals, how you solve problems, how you prioritize resources, how you assess risk.

But… mostly what they want to know is what about them!

Enter the world of what psychologist call self-efficacy.

Research On Self-Efficacy

Self-Efficacy is a fancy term for belief in yourself; confidence in the capabilities and talents you have been given and developed. Studies have shown that the confidence you have in your capabilities affects your performance and is linked to happiness, satisfaction, and well-being. All of these attributes in one way or another link to success.

In some fascinating new research published in the December 2016 issue of the Consulting Psychology Journal it turns out that you can help those you “coach” to be more successful by following 3 simple ideas:

  • Invest the Time The confidence of the person increased as the coaching relationship evolved over time. As you coach others over the course of your conversation, notice how their confidence increases toward the coaching objective. When it does, make them aware that you are seeing this increase in confidence.
  • Say it Out Loud Turns out that the more the client verbally articulates their confidence, the higher the achievement to the goal actually becomes. “I am going to do this” type statements show confidence in the client's ability. The more they make commitments out loud, the increased likelihood of belief in themselves.
  • Ask the Right Question at the Right Time In this study questions coaches asked fell into three categories: Open-ended - “What do you want to do?" Proposing Solutions - “You could search for other companies that offer better possibilities.” Provide Support - “That sounds like a great idea."

Turns out that proposing solutions was only effective in triggering self-efficacy statements in the very first coaching session. While the other two methods enhanced the confidence of the other person throughout the coaching engagement.

2017 and Beyond

As you work with and coach others on your team, especially if you have more of a long-term relationship, focus on asking open-ended questions and providing support for the ideas they bring. Too many of us fall into the trap of proposing solutions because it makes us feel better about ourselves, like we added real value. I would argue that the value you bring is the investment of time and belief in the person you are coaching. The research says that the value of you proposing solutions beyond early in a coaching relationship does little to improve the confidence or belief in the mind of the person you are working with.

I predict if you focus on building the confidence of others in your organization, you will have a very successful 2017. Let me know throughout your year how this prediction is coming true for you!

Homework

When you are coaching others, resist the temptation to make the coaching about you by offering advice and providing them solutions. Really focus this year on practicing open-ended questions and providing your client the support they need.